But when the disciples saw it, they were angry and said, “Why this waste? For this ointment could have been sold for a large sum and the money given to the poor.” But Jesus, aware of this, said to them, “Why do you trouble the woman? She has performed a good service for me.
I’ve been thinking a lot about our culture that calls people out for any perceived transgression.
It’s as if we suddenly believe that shame and shaming people changes things. Our best is no longer good enough, our perfection is demanded.
Anointing with oil was a welcome, an act of hospitality, a symbol of connection. It was a commitment to calling people into community.
Today, our words are how we anoint others. And, it’s a poor substitute.
In the absence of oil, we label and gatekeep, often seeking purity in our chosen communities.
It’s no wonder we’re lonely, isolated, and inflexible. That’s shame in action.
Anointing should be an act of gentleness, vulnerability, and connection, shared broadly in our communities. And, if we only have words, how much more important that stance is today.
How might you use your words to anoint and call people into relationship today?
--Jason Whitehead
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